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2-year defiance - what is it?

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    2-year defiance - what is it?

    Are you dealing with 2-year-old defiance at home? You are not alone! The age of defiance is an important developmental phase for young children, and it usually appears around the age of 2. During this period, children start to develop a stronger sense of independence and want to test their limits. In this article, we'll look at what causes defiance and how you, as a parent, can think about understanding your little one better.

    At the age of 2, children begin to understand that they are their own individuals, leading to a natural desire to assert their will and explore their independence. At the same time, 2-year-olds still lack the ability to express their feelings and desires in a mature way, which can lead to frustration and defiance.

    As children enter the age of defiance, it is common for it to manifest itself in the form of outbursts, and these can occur even around what seems to you as an adult to be a minor setback or failure. As a parent, it can be both good and helpful to have an understanding of what situations can lead to your child having an outburst of defiance, and what these look like.

    Why does the child have an outbreak?

    There are several things that can lead to a child of defiant age having an outburst. These can include the following:

    • The child gets angry, sad or disappointed about something
    • The child is tired or hungry
    • The child has difficulty dealing with something that happens in the moment, such as you as a parent or another adult saying no
    • The child has to interrupt their play or some other activity
    • The child is in need of closeness and security
    • The child becomes insecure or confused because they do not understand routines or rules
    • The child is affected by how you behave or feel as an adult. The child does not understand what you are feeling when you are stressed or irritated, for example.

    An outburst by a child of defiant age is about emotions that the child has not learned to understand or manage. Some children are more stubborn, outgoing, impulsive and have more difficulty controlling themselves. That said, some children are more likely to have outbursts than others. How children react in different situations can also differ from day to day.

    Common behaviors in defiant children

    • The "no" phase: Children often say 'no' to everything, even to things they really want to do. This is a way for them to test their independence and see how much control they have over their environment.
    • Emotional outbursts: Sudden and intense emotional outbursts are common. These can be triggered by small setbacks or when the child does not get their way. Be patient!
    • Independence requirements: Children insist on doing things for themselves, such as getting dressed or eating, even if they are not always able to do so without help. This can lead to conflicts between you as a family and it is often up to you as a parent to pick your battles, be consistent and try to understand how your child feels!

    Understanding and empathy Understanding is the key when you are a parent with a child of defiant age! Try to see the situations that arise from the child's perspective. Young children have limited ways of expressing their feelings and frustrations. By showing understanding and empathy, you can help them navigate through their emotions and develop better ways of communicating.

    Dealing with defiance in young children can be challenging, but it is also an opportunity to support their emotional and social development. With patience, understanding and the right strategies, you can help your child grow and learn to manage their emotions in a healthy way!

    Read also: 10 tips for parents on how to deal with tantrums

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